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Getting rejected sucks. No matter how old one is. Maybe we learn to deal with it better as we grow, maybe we don’t. One thing is still for sure: it hurts. Lucky for us, however, it isn’t the end. You can get rejected and come back stronger. In fact it is one of the best ways to. In this post we’ll be examining just how to deal with that painful phenomenon that is unrequited love, but first to understand it better we take a quick look at why unrequited affections affects us so much. Unrequited Love: Why it Hurts So Much It is quite simple actually. You see there’s a difference between being rejected and being rejected by someone you have feelings for. It’s not a huge, obvious difference. Of course to an extent they both involve quite a substantial amount of pain. They both require us to put ourselves on the line. But therein lies the difference: the amount and extent of the vulnerability that we display. And what it is exactly that we’re putting on the line. The Heart vs the Ego We put ourselves on the line everyday. In an ordinary scenario where we ask anything of...

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